6 Ways to Craft a Family of Purpose
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6 Ways to Craft a Family of Purpose
Many years ago, my husband John and I set up a framework for our family. Identifying our priorities and eliminating what didn’t fit helped us to establish a family life filled with meaning and purpose–one that included the space to follow God wherever He would lead. In other words, we formed (created) our family value system and framework before we filled (added things into our lives.) The idea of forming and filling isn’t something we came up with on our own; it came from the first pages of the Bible.
In the first three days of creation, God “formed.” He established supportive systems necessary for life and humankind‘s existence. He created the heavens and the earth. He separated the waters from the land. He built the framework that would sustain his creation. The last three days, God “filled” His creative world with plants, flowers, animals, and humankind.
Problems come when we fill our weekly and monthly schedules before we build a structure for them. We make decisions from our emotions or desires without contemplating their impact on us or our family. But as I’ve experienced, this never works. Few good things ever happen by accident. As John and I considered the type of parents we wanted to be and the type of children we wanted to raise, six priorities rose to the top:
1. Attending Church
For us, church attendance has never been optional. God‘s Word is clear on this:
We read in Hebrews 10:25: “And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near” (NLT).
Attending church is important for our family and we are happy to set aside time to honor the Lord and gather with other believers.
2. Serving Others Together
We wanted our kids to learn how to serve, even from a young age. When I launched Hope Pregnancy Center, they helped remodel our ministry building by pulling up carpet and picking up trash. They folded baby clothes and stacked diapers. My daughter Leslie even babysat for a teen mom support group. At first I felt guilty; other kids were outside playing or hanging out with friends. But I soon discovered that our kids were proud of their efforts and it became easier for them to serve in other ways.
3. Reading the Bible and Praying Together
Every school day morning, we read from the Bible and a devotional book, then pray together. We do this first thing. I want to show my kids that reading the Bible is always a priority.
John and I also read the Bible and pray with each other in the mornings. We don’t succeed every day, but we do it most days. When our youngest children were small, they were often up at that time and, though they knew they couldn’t interrupt, they loved watching us. Sometimes, when I’d open my eyes after praying, I’d find three little kids sitting at our feet, listening to every word. It was especially sweet when later, during their prayer time, I’d hear my words repeated as they prayed for family members and concerns. Although having kids watch me while I prayed sometimes felt awkward, I knew it was important. It modeled for them what a healthy spiritual life might look like.
4. Eating Family Dinner Together
John and I decided long ago that our family knowing each other was important, and a face-to-face connection while eating a meal around the table is a great to get everyone together. During family dinners, we talk about our day and enjoy the conversation. We expect our kids to help out with these meals; some of them help cook dinner, others set the table. Afterward, our kids help clear the table and put away food, unload and load the dishwasher, wash pots and pans, wipe down the counters, and sweep the floor. Together, all these activities teach our children what being part of a family is all about.
5. Reading Together at Bedtime
When my children were little, one of my favorite times of the day was when I got them settled in at night and it was time to read. We’d turn off all electronics, the kids got ready for bed, and then we’d sit down together. Now that our kids are older, we read together at different points in the day. Our adult kids still look back on reading time with fondness. We’ve never regretted the time we spent together within the pages of a book.
6. Supporting Everyone’s Talents and Activities Together
Whenever one of our children is involved in an activity, we show up as a family to support them. With my now-grown kids, that included attending football games to watch our daughter in the marching band and going to statewide basketball games for our son. With our younger ones, it includes football games, soccer practice, and horseback riding lessons. We even make time to attend our grandkids’ events whenever possible. We want our children to know they are uniquely special and their whole family is cheering them on. These priorities lead to habits that foster a more focused and settled spirit as a family.
I have no doubt that if John hadn’t stepped in and helped me learn to create white space and consider our family priorities and foundation, at least part of the foundation would’ve been built on sand. You can only be blown in so many different directions for so long without collapsing like a house of cards. Thankfully, our family is now strongly structured and focused on the purposes God has for us together.
What compels you to add activities to your schedule? Do you worry about what others will think or fear that you’re not doing enough? Feelings of inadequacy and a desire to prove yourself can lead to disappointment. This week, try to name one thing God has asked you to join Him in but you have been unable to do because you haven’t made the time and space. How could you re-order your priorities? What activities or commitments could you give up to make room for God‘s calling on your life?
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March 11
Numbers 34-36
Boundaries and Refuge
As we bid farewell to Numbers, we’ve traversed through five books of the Bible – what an accomplishment! 🎉 Amidst life’s busyness, your dedication to reading is inspiring. Let’s delve into the final chapters and extract some timeless wisdom together.
Reflections on the Journey: God’s Faithfulness
Numbers may have felt long, but Israel’s journey was far longer, marred by rebellion and struggles. Yet, God’s faithfulness never wavered. Despite their shortcomings, He protected and blessed them abundantly, a testament to His unwavering love.
Boundaries and Inheritance: God’s Design
In Numbers 34, God establishes boundaries for the Israelites in Canaan, reflecting His divine plan for order and inheritance. Leaders are appointed to divide land, underscoring the importance of God’s guidance in our earthly endeavors.
Cities of Refuge: A Sanctuary in Peril
The provision of cities of refuge in Numbers 35 offers a glimpse of God’s mercy and justice. Amidst swift retribution, these cities provide sanctuary for the accused, symbolizing God’s protection and redemption.
Word of the Day: Refuge
Today’s word, “refuge,” holds profound significance in Numbers. Just as accused individuals sought sanctuary in cities of refuge, we find solace and safety in God’s loving embrace. In our darkest moments, He is our shield and stronghold.
Personal Takeaway: Finding Refuge in God
Reflecting on personal experiences, like finding refuge amidst adversity, reminds us of God’s ever-present care. Just as Psalm 46 reassures, He is our refuge and strength, a constant source of hope and protection.
Seeking Refuge Today
If you’re facing insecurity or fear, know God offers refuge. Through prayer and seeking His presence, we find solace and safety. Trust in His provision, for He is faithful to shelter and guide us through life’s storms.
As we conclude our journey through Numbers, let’s carry these insights forward. God’s faithfulness, boundary-setting, and provision of refuge resonate deeply, guiding us in our walk with Him. Stay tuned for more enriching reflections in our upcoming posts!
March 12
Deuteronomy 1
Deuteronomy 2
Deuteronomy 3:1-20
Secured and Fixed: Lessons from Deuteronomy
Greetings, fellow seekers of wisdom! Today’s journey through the Bible takes us into the heart of Deuteronomy—often called the “second law.” As we explore chapters 1, 2, and 3:1-20, we unravel a collection of promises, commands, and the unwavering faithfulness of God. So, buckle up for an enlightening ride through the plains of Moab!
Deuteronomy Unveiled: A Second Law for a New Beginning
Deuteronomy serves as a compass, guiding the Israelites from the wilderness to the Promised Land. Moses, the faithful leader, delivers powerful speeches, reminding the people of their covenant with God and the importance of obedience. This book is not merely a repetition of laws but a call to remember, learn, and flourish in the new land they are about to enter.
The “Promise Sandwich” – A Divine Blueprint
The opening chapters reveal a unique literary pattern—a “promise sandwich.” Nestled between God’s promises are essential commands. It’s a divine blueprint for success: “I am giving this land to you,” echoes the promise, followed by the command to occupy it, all rooted in the ancestral promise to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob (Deuteronomy 1:8). This structure amplifies the significance of God’s commitment to His people.
Historical Reminders: Learning from the Past
Moses walks the Israelites through key historical moments: leadership appointments, scouting missions, rebellion, and encounters with other nations. These aren’t just recounts; they’re vital lessons. Understanding past mistakes ensures a brighter future. The moving assurance from Moses, “The Lord your God is going ahead of you,” resonates, offering comfort and courage.
Boundaries: God’s Fair Play
God, in His wisdom, establishes boundaries for Israel. Territories are marked, not only for them but also for the descendants of Esau (Edomites) and Lot (Moabites). This displays God’s fairness, securing land for all related to the patriarchs. It is a powerful reminder that God’s plan encompasses more than just one nation.
The Unseen Hand of God
We note the intricate details surrounding the Edomites, revealing God’s continual involvement beyond Israel. The historical journey of the Edomites, from ancient records to the prophecies in Isaiah, unveils a God who cares for all His creations. It’s a testimony to God’s redemption, even for those who rebelled against Him.
Secured and Fixed: Our Personal Takeaway
As we navigate through the layers of Deuteronomy, the resounding message is clear: God’s faithfulness endures. The hymn “Great is Thy Faithfulness” encapsulates this beautifully. The personal testimony in Deuteronomy 1:31 reinforces the notion of God caring for us like a loving father.
Word of the Day: Secured
Before we conclude, let’s not forget our word for today: secured. Just as God secures territories for His people, our faith in Jesus secures and fixes us. Incorporate this keyword into your reflections on faith, promises, and God’s enduring love.
Conclusion
In Deuteronomy, we find a divine symphony—a melody of promises, commands, historical lessons, and God’s unwavering faithfulness. As you dive into these chapters, you will find both historical accounts and living testimonies of God’s love. And remember, our faith is secured and fixed in the eternal, unchanging God.
Join us in our next podcast episode, where we continue this captivating journey through the Bible. Until then, may you experience our Faithful God’s secure and fixed love in every chapter of your life.
March 13
Deuteronomy 3:21-29
Deuteronomy 4
Deuteronomy 5
Navigating Deuteronomy: Wisdom, Promises, and Pleas for Obedience
Hello, Daily Bible Podcast community! Today’s exploration takes us into the heart of Deuteronomy—chapters 3, 4, and 5. But before we dive in, let’s unravel the layers of this significant book.
Discovering Deuteronomy: More Than a Repetition
Yesterday marked the beginning of our journey through Deuteronomy, a book that may seem like a repetitive echo of Exodus, Leviticus, and Numbers. However, don’t let exhaustion cloud the profound messages it carries. Deuteronomy is the passionate preaching of God’s law by Moses, unfolding on the plains of Moab. As we read, we witness Moses urging the people to learn from past mistakes, follow God’s law, and embrace His ways. This final book of the Pentateuch echoes God’s promises and emphasizes the importance of remembrance.
Assurance for the Promised Land: Wisdom and Obedience
Israel is about to enter the Promised Land! What assurance does Joshua have? That the Lord will fight for him.
As the Israelites stand on the brink of the Promised Land, Moses, denied entry, imparts crucial wisdom. Victory lies not in might but in wisdom and complete obedience. Deuteronomy 4:6-7 highlights this, underscoring God’s proximity to His people. The assurance for the journey is clear: obey the decrees, live, enter, and occupy the promised land.
In Moses’s final words, a plea echoes: “Never forget.” The emphasis on passing down the memories to future generations becomes paramount. Even in the face of potential disobedience, Moses assures them of God’s mercy and the eventual return to Him.
Covenant and Consequences: A Binding Relationship
The term “cut a covenant” resounds through Deuteronomy, an act deeply rooted in ancient traditions. Moses emphasizes this sacred bond—a relationship marked by loyalty, commitment, and faithfulness. The covenant isn’t just an agreement but a profound connection between God and His people. This theme echoes throughout the Bible, culminating in the new covenant through Christ, offering redemption to humanity.
Commandments Revisited: Pleas for Remembrance and Obedience
Chapter 5 revisits the fundamental commandments, emphasizing God’s covenant with His people. Moses reminds them of God’s attempt to speak directly to them, their fear, and the plea for him to be the intermediary. Amidst repetition, Moses underscores the importance of remembrance and obedience, using phrases like “Be careful,” “Never forget,” and “Obey completely.”
Word of the Day: Supplication
Amid Moses’s tender moments and heartfelt pleas, our Word of the Day is “Supplication”—asking or begging for something earnestly or humbly. Moses exemplifies this in his dialogue with God and his earnest requests for the people to listen, understand, and obey.
Moses’s Legacy of Faith and Supplication
As we conclude today’s reflection, we see Moses, the leader, and supplicant, laying the foundation for the Israelites’ journey. His passionate pleas for obedience, remembrance, and wisdom resonate with a parent’s heartfelt reminders. In supplication, Moses falls on his face, embodying a powerful act of faith.
Join us in the upcoming podcast episode as we continue this enriching journey through Deuteronomy. Until then, may the wisdom, promises, and pleas for obedience echo in your hearts, guiding your path of faith.
March 14
Deuteronomy 6-9
Love, Obedience, and Wholehearted Devotion
Welcome back, Daily Bible Podcast community! Today, our exploration takes us into the heart of Deuteronomy, delving into chapters 6 through 9. Imagine yourself sitting on the brink of the Jordan River, about to cross into the Promised Land. Moses, the revered leader, addresses you and your fellow travelers, sharing the history of the last 40 years and emphasizing the commands God has for His people. These commands, echoing the call to love the Lord with all your heart, soul, and strength, are to be obeyed, shaping a life dedicated to God.
Listen, O Israel!
Moses passionately declares, urging the people to acknowledge the Lord as their God, the only one. The recurring theme? Love God with everything, committing wholeheartedly to His commands. Why? As the Israelites approach the promised land, Moses wants them to remember their journey and not forget how God rescued them. The Lord is among them, guiding their steps, ensuring they conquer the land step by step.
Every Word from the Mouth of God
Moses recalls the times of testing and humbling, echoing Jesus’ words in the New Testament. “Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.” But what does this mean? It’s an invitation to ponder the significance of God’s words—His law. Obeying the law meant choosing life, a concept later reinforced by Jesus during his 40-day fast in the wilderness.
Wholeheartedly Devoted
Amidst the repetition of laws, Deuteronomy unveils a beautiful truth. For 40 years, God’s people wandered miraculously, their clothes and feet untouched. Now, as they approach a land flowing with abundance, Moses emphasizes the importance of wholehearted devotion. Our Word of the Day, “wholeheartedly,” signifies complete and sincere dedication.
The Legacy of Elisabeth Elliot
Reflecting on wholehearted devotion, we draw inspiration from the life of Elisabeth Elliot. Despite tragedy and loss, Elisabeth chose to remain in Ecuador, continuing her mission work among the Auka Indians. Her story exemplifies unwavering commitment to God’s call, even in the face of great personal cost.
Teaching Future Generations
As Moses implores the Israelites to obey, praise, and remember, we too must teach our children. Elisabeth Elliot’s example reminds us that a life of wholehearted devotion comes with challenges, but the rewards are worth the cost. We must trust God for everything, just as our elderly loved ones, like my 94-year-old grandmother, trust us for care.
Final Thoughts
In a world full of distractions, maintaining wholehearted devotion requires looking back on God’s faithfulness, trusting Him for everything, and teaching future generations. Our journey through Deuteronomy invites us to fight the good fight for true faith, holding tightly to the eternal life God has called us to. Let us remain dedicated, for, at the right time, Christ will be revealed, the King of all kings and Lord of all lords.
Join us in the upcoming podcast episode as we explore more profound insights from the book of Deuteronomy. Until then, may your hearts be filled with wholehearted devotion to our Lord.
March 15
Deuteronomy 10-12
Navigating Leadership Transitions, Divine Inheritance, and a Call to Commission
Hey, Daily Bible Podcast community! Today, we’re delving into the specifics of Deuteronomy 10, 11, and 12—moving beyond general commands to uncover God’s specific stipulations. Have you ever wondered what it’d be like to be part of this ancient crowd, trying to hear Moses with no sound system in the back? Let’s explore!
Moses and the Art of Storytelling
Moses continues the narrative of the last 40 years, reminiscent of family tales. Like sharing memories with in-laws, Moses focuses on the big picture, not exact details. It’s a summary, not a perfectly detailed account. Moses places the tablets in the Ark, emphasizing the grand tale over the fine details.
Requirements for a Blessed Life
Deuteronomy 10:12 echoes the core requirements: fear God, live to please Him, love and serve Him with all your heart and soul. Moses repeats these concepts—fear, live, love, obey, cling, and tell your children. These aren’t just words; they’re a blueprint for a blessed life.
The Land of Abundance: A Promise and a Condition
Moses paints a picture of the wonderful land awaiting the Israelites, contingent on one thing—obedience. God promises abundance, feasting in His presence. In Chapter 12, Moses urges them to erase foreign gods from the land. It’s a land of rejoicing, but obedience is the key.
Conditions and Consequences
Conditions arise—be careful not to turn away from God. If they do, consequences follow: God’s anger, drought, and failure in the land. Commit to God’s Word for a flourishing life. Moses emphasizes the choice—obey and thrive or turn away and face repercussions.
The Sanctity of Blood
Deuteronomy emphasizes not consuming blood; it’s the lifeblood. As we partake in the Lord’s Supper, symbolizing Christ’s blood, we’re reminded of the newness of life in Him.
Word of the Day: Cling
Today’s word, “Cling,” is a powerful verb. Moses urges the Israelites to cling to God actively. It’s about trusting His promises, seeking His favor, and living for His approval. Clinging isn’t passive—it’s a vibrant, intentional choice.
A Challenge for Today
Moses, knowing his days are short, wants the point to stick—fear, live, love, obey, and cling. Today, let’s be active in our faith. Write down one way to actively cling to God: “I will share one good thing God’s done for me today.”
Final Thoughts
Moses’ timeless words echo through the ages. Actively cling to God, and don’t merely listen—do what the Word says. In our journey through Deuteronomy, let’s embrace these active verbs and build a life that reflects God’s goodness.
Stay tuned for our next episode, and may your day be filled with active clinging to the goodness of our Lord.
March 16
Deuteronomy 13-16:1-17
Vows, Warfare, and Spiritual Vigilance
Greetings, fellow explorers of the Word! Today, our journey takes us through the rich chapters of Deuteronomy 13 to 16:17. As we delve into the profound wisdom of Moses, let’s not merely learn the Bible but embrace the essence of God’s character, building a relationship with Him. Remember what Jen Wilkin beautifully articulates: “We learn the Bible for the sake of learning the character of God and being in relationship with Him.”
Warning: False Prophets and Idolatry
Deuteronomy 13 issues a stern warning against false prophets and idolatry. Even close family members or entire towns should not be spared if they lead people away from God. God commands unwavering action—show no mercy, do not spare, and put them to death. It’s a reminder of God’s mercy for those who listen and obey.
Tithes and Celebrations in God’s Presence
Dietary laws, tithes (1/10), and celebrations take center stage. Bringing the tithe and feasting in God’s presence is a captivating concept. Even if living far away, they were to use the money to celebrate with their household. A contingency plan that reflects the joy of God’s blessings.
Forgiveness and Liberation
Deuteronomy 15 introduces the year of release, emphasizing debt forgiveness and the release of slaves in the seventh year. The Israelites are instructed to set aside the firstborn of their herds and flocks for the Lord, eating them in His presence. It’s a powerful symbol of acknowledging God’s ownership.
Celebrate—More Than a Ritual
Word of the Day: “Celebrate.” Passover, Festival of Unleavened Bread, Festival of the Harvest, and Festival of Shelters were not just rituals but celebrations. Sacrifices foreshadow Christ’s ability to continually cover our sins. Yet, do we miss the celebration? God wants us to rejoice in His blessings.
Offering as a Celebration
What if our tithe was a feast in God’s presence with our household? Or if our voluntary offerings were celebrated with family, friends, and those in need? Deuteronomy 16 encourages celebration before the Lord. Celebrating the Lord’s goodness is a profound witness of God’s blessings, requiring no evangelism class. People witness God’s favor and want to know more.
Harvest Festivals and Remembrance
Reflect on the festivals—Passover, Festival of the Harvest, and Festival of Shelters. They were more than events; they were opportunities to remember God’s goodness. Today, let’s infuse celebration into our giving, creating a witness that speaks louder than words.
May our lives be a continuous celebration of God’s goodness, and may the festivals in Deuteronomy inspire us to remember and rejoice. Let’s make the Bible not just a lesson, but a feast for our souls.
March 17
Deuteronomy 16:18-22
Deuteronomy 17-20
Deuteronomy 21:1-9
Unveiling Deuteronomy: Beyond Laws to Life’s Model
Greetings, seekers of wisdom! Today, our journey through Deuteronomy 16:18-22, 17, 18, 19, 20, and 21:1-9 brings us face-to-face with the sage insights of Moses. Aging gracefully, Moses shares God’s laws, anticipating the people’s future struggles and the potential desire for a king.
The King’s Mandate: A Model for Godliness
Moses, foreseeing the possibility of a king, instructs a unique directive—write a copy of the law, read it daily, and remain humble. A king in tune with God’s decrees would benefit the people, fostering a just and God-centered rule. The law wasn’t just about compliance; it was a model for righteous living.
Laws Revisited: A Reminder of God’s Standard
While many laws are revisited, we see a broader purpose beyond immediate compliance. The Torah becomes a preparatory phase, leading to the arrival of Jesus, the Messiah. Jesus brings a revolutionary shift—from external compliance to internal transformation, emphasizing faith and sacrificial love.
Word of the Day: Model
The word of the day is “Model.” The laws given to the Israelites were like a model, a representation of Jesus, who fulfilled every requirement. The law prepared us for understanding God’s standard, paving the way for Jesus’ fulfillment.
Modeling Jesus: A Call to Imitate Christ
As we grow to know Jesus, we are called to imitate Him, becoming models of His ways. Like a system set as an example, we are to imitate Christ and become the hands and feet of Jesus. Our love and actions become a model for a world in need, showcasing God’s love.
Being the Model: The Hands and Feet of Jesus
Paul urges us in 1 Corinthians 11:1 to imitate Christ, and at the end of every podcast, we echo the call to become “the hands and feet of Jesus.” Why? We are a model for God. People watch us, and through our love, they open their hearts to the good news of Jesus.
Let’s not merely follow laws but embrace the model of Jesus. May our lives reflect the transformative power of faith, love, and imitating Christ.
